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Post by denise on May 30, 2019 10:19:11 GMT
As a few of you may know, I've been researching Patti Lewis. In the course of that research, I discovered that in 2004, a book was written in Italian about Patti and Jerry's 1953 visit to the Italian town of Paganica, that had been home to Patti's mother, Mary/Maria Rotellini Calonico Farino. This book, Patti Palmer & Jerry Lewis: Due Stelle a Paganica, was written by a native of the town who originally wanted to start a photo archive of Paganica (near L'Aquila, earthquake country). By chance he met a cousin of Patti's, who found old photos (some of which can be seen on the internet) and was an eye witness to the visit. Seeing Jerry in these photos, the author thought the man looked familiar, but could not really place him. But his son saw the photos and asked what Jerry Lewis had been doing in this provincial nest. And then the author recognized Jerry and eventually researched the story behind the one-day trip Jerry and Patti took to Paganica during their European vacation in the summer of '53, after Jerry and Dean had performed in Scotland and England, and then in France for American troops there. Being a researcher both professionally and privately, I was curious about all this and managed to find and contact the book's author, Mr. Raffaele Alloggia. I was able to obtain a copy of the book, and for the past days I've been busy using Google to translate the Italian into readable English. Much of the book is taken up with an Italian translation of certain chapters of Patti's book I Laffed Till I Cried (1993). But Mr. Alloggia wrote much text himself about the visit and about Italian emigration in general, and about Patti's mother's family. If you are interested, I'll post a few summaries here, but under the condition that you do not re-post them elsewhere. If I want them re-posted, I'll take care of that. Let me know if you'd like to read them. Just as a teaser: I can tell you how son #2 got his name.
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Post by anarchistemma on Jun 6, 2019 23:52:02 GMT
do tell! of course we love to know all! and how did #2 get his name? if you have photos we maybe haven’t seen, that would be cool too.😉
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Post by denise on Jun 10, 2019 9:12:55 GMT
@ anarchistemma: To be honest, I thought there would be more feedback. It seems you're the only one interested.
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Post by DBF on Jun 11, 2019 9:07:16 GMT
I'm interested as well.
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Post by denise on Jun 13, 2019 18:10:03 GMT
OK, here goes. I'll do this in several installments. Part 1 As I previously stated, I stumbled on the existence of the book Patti Palmer & Jerry Lewis: Due Stelle a Paganica (2004) while researching Patti Lewis – more on that at a later time. The author, Mr. Raffaele Alloggia, himself a native of the town of Paganica and something of a local historian and journalist, was trying to organize a photo archive of the town. One rainy day, he by chance met a woman at the post office and while driving her home, asked if her family might have old photos of the town. The woman said yes, there were some in a cupboard, and had them sent to Mr. Alloggia. They were of Jerry and Patti's visit in 1953. Seeing the photos, he did not immediately recognize Jerry as a famous actor. But his son, who also saw the photos, did. Only then did Mr. Alloggia recognize the famous Jerry Lewis and contacted the woman – named Antinisca, who turned out to be a cousin of Patti's – to get more information. So Antinisca told him the story about how the famous Jerry Lewis and his wife landed in the small Italian town of Paganica in the summer of 1953.
Patti's mother was born Maria Rotellini. According to town records, pictured in the book, she was born on February 28, 1901; her parents were Angelo Rotellini and Filomena DeCesaris. Her siblings were Franco (later to play an important role), Uliana, Agostino, Aronne, Antonietta and Finizia. Paganica was a town where poverty was rampant. In fact, poverty was a great problem all over Italy. Between the end of the 19th century and World War I, millions of Italians left their homeland in search of work and a better life, any life. Maria's brother Franco at some point left Paganica for America and found his way to the coal mines of Wyoming, where he lived the tough life of a miner.
To make ends meet, Maria's parents had sent her to work for a wealthy family in the town. She had to work hard and, since she had a rebellious character, was evidently frequently beaten. She wrote to her brother in Wyoming that she dreamed of joining him in America. But her brother wrote back that it wasn't so easy. The only way she would be admitted into the US, and especially since she was a minor, would be to marry someone already in the US by proxy. Mr. Alloggia told me that such marriages back then were common; the marriage by proxy was performed by the civil authorities, not by the church, and the couple, once united, would have a „real“ wedding with both parties present. It was indeed for many people the only way out of their poverty. Franco Rotellini had a miner buddy in Wyoming, a fellow Italian named Antonio (American records name him Angelo) Calonico who was willing to marry Franco's sister. They exchanged photos, and so Maria, armed with only a photo of her betrothed, was married by proxy by the civil authority in Paganica. She emigrated to the US, leaving Naples on the ship S.S. Duca D'Aosta on June 24, 1920, and arrived in New York in the first week of July 1920. Using Ancestry.com, I have found the ship's list with her name: Maria Rotellini, age 19, single (? What about the proxy marriage?), hometown of Paganica, father Angelo Rotellini, destination Cambria, Wyoming. (It seems Patti's family believes that Maria entered the US in 1919, but the ship's list tells a different story.) Maria Rotellini and Angelo Calonico did indeed have a „real“ wedding, on January or June (the record is illegible) 19, 1921 in Wyoming. (Source for this is also Ancestry.com.) Note: this last information about the actual year of Maria's emigration, ship's name, ship's list, wedding in Wyoming, etc. is my research; it is not mentioned in Mr. Alloggia's book.
This marriage produced two children: Pasqualina (Patti), born in November 1920 or 1921, depending on whom you believe, and Giuseppe (Joseph), born in 1923.
To be continued
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Post by denise on Jun 15, 2019 7:41:21 GMT
Part 2
Mr. Alloggia's book contains many pages of an Italian translation of some chapters of Patti's book I Laffed Till I Cried. I will not summarize these chapters here. So if you have not already read Patti's book, I can only recommend you do. Although out of print, there may still be some copies available on Amazon, ebay or Abebooks.com.
Patti's mother had told her about her hard life growing up in Paganica – the poverty and social imbalance. It seems that Jerry had been trying for years to get Patti to go with him to Italy to meet her relatives, but Patti, living a privileged life as a Hollywood star's wife, put it off for years, fearing her own shame at seeing how her relatives lived vs. her own comparative luxury.
But finally the trip was planned for the summer of 1953. Dean and Jerry were going to Europe, first to perform their live stage act in Scotland and England and then in France for American troops there (not for French audiences). Afterwards, each went his own way. (Dean's parents had accompanied him, so it is possible that they too visited their relatives in Italy. Although Gary and Ronnie were also in Europe, they did not make the trip with their parents to Paganica. Patti's mother, who lived with Patti and Jerry, did not go to Europe at all. I don't know why, but it could have been for health reasons; she died the following spring.) Jerry and Patti flew to Rome, rented a car and drove 3 hours to Paganica. Actually two cars were rented, as Jerry and Patti also took along an interpreter and photographers or reporters to record the family reunion. The townspeople were very surprised to see two large, luxurious automobiles suddenly pulling in to their quiet town. The group started walking through the town and immediately met up with Patti's cousin Emidio Fiore, who was on his way with a donkey cart to help his father in the fields. Emidio took them to his mother's house, his mother being Patti's Aunt Uliana. The photographers and reporters were photographing and noting everything they saw, and people leaned out their windows to catch this unusual sight. Once they arrived at Uliana's house, Patti's aunt scolded her son for not going to the fields as he should. Patti laughed out loud, since her aunt reminded her exactly of her mother. The guests were invited into the house and Uliana immediately asked Pasqualina, as Patti had again become for this day, for news of Maria. Although the sisters corresponded irregularly, they had not seen each other for almost 35 years.
In the meantime cousin Emidio went to look for other relatives. He found cousin Antinisca, aunt Loreta's daughter, who immediately went to Uliana's house. After a chat with aunt Uliana, Patti and Jerry went to Aunt Loreta's house. Aunt Loreta was the widow of Maria's brother Aronne, who was already deceased. Patti must have known at least some of his tragic story, because she and Jerry had named their second son (the adopted son) Ronnie after Aronne (Ronnie's name was really Ronald Stephen). So there was a special bond between Patti and Aunt Loreta. Through the interpreter, Patti asked Aunt Loreta to tell her the details of Aronne's death.
To be continued
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Post by aajjgg on Jun 17, 2019 17:05:18 GMT
any photos?
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Post by denise on Jun 18, 2019 9:03:45 GMT
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Post by denise on Jun 18, 2019 17:02:43 GMT
Part 3
As Loreta's daughter Antinisca later told the author, recalling Aronne's death was a very emotional experience for Loreta. Although many years had passed, it was still a painful and tearful memory.
In April 1931, Aronne had been politically persecuted, along with other townspeople. (Remember that Mussolini and his Fascists were in power in Italy long before Hitler and his Nazi Fascists were in Germany.) Aronne and the others had been accused of holding meetings and distributing „subversive“ propaganda in the form of leaflets. At first Aronne was held in the local prison, but later released on probation under the condition that he not leave his house between 8 pm and 6 am. During his probation the local police chief wrote reports on him every six months, saying that he was showing good behavior, working to support his family, avoiding political confrontations, but his political views had not changed. So it can be assumed that Aronne was anti-Mussolini.
One evening he had not returned home by 8 pm from working in a vineyard. Worried, his wife Loreta went out to search for him. She got Aronne's sister Uliana to help her. They went to the local winery to see if Aronne had possibly stopped there for a glass of wine. That was a popular thing for the men of the town to do. The women split up, hoping one would find him quickly. There was no public lighting, so the two women walked through the darkness. Hearing moaning, Uliana found her brother leaning against a wall with a hoe in his back. He had first been beaten by several people before someone had stabbed him with his own tool. He was immediately taken to a hospital, where he spent a long recovery, but he survived.
At the time, Aronne and Loreta had four children: Antinisca, Agostino and the baby twins Palmiero and Angelo. As was the custom, one twin – Angelo – was nursed by a neighbor (he later married this woman's daughter), so that only Palmiero was nursed by his mother. But the stress of constantly running to the hospital to look after Aronne was too much for her – she neglected her own health while still breastfeeding Palmiero. Unfortunately the baby became ill and died in September 1931 at the age of only seven months.
Although Aronne eventually recovered from his injuries, he was stricken with epilepsy. Never knowing when a seizure would occur, he could not be left alone. One day he had a seizure at home while sitting in front of the fireplace with a fire going. He fell into the flames. Only the youngest son Angelo was with his father. Angelo immediately ran to get help from his Aunt Uliana, who lived nearby and who for a second time was an unwilling witness to a tragedy involving her brother. She tried to pull him from the fire, but it was too late, he was engulfed by flames, nothing more could be done for Aronne. Officially he died of a heart attack on September 18, 1940, at the age of 42.
In the middle of World War II and left alone, Loreta struggled to raise her other three children. The family survived these very hard times.
To be continued
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Post by denise on Jun 21, 2019 17:02:14 GMT
Part 4
Aronne's tragic fate cast a somber mood on the family reunion. Anger, sadness and tears shone on all their faces. Patti was deeply saddened to hear what had happened to her uncle, but especially Jerry was strongly affected. Being Jewish, he remembered the millions of victims of the Holocaust.
To break the somber mood, the photographers and reporters present asked questions about the many utensils hanging on the kitchen walls, and so a happier atmosphere was restored. Agostinio, another cousin of Patti's, remembered seeing a large crowd in front of the entrance to his mother Loreta's home. Hearing what was occurring, he decided against going in, since he was clothed for work in the fields and not for greeting relatives and a Hollywood star. He later rememberd that Jerry – being Jerry! - handed out $10 bills from a fat wallet to anyone who approached him.
In the meantime, another aunt, Antonietta, had prepared a meal in her house nearby, and on the way there Patti frequently stopped to chat with the many onlookers who inquired about her mother. Aunt Antonietta had prepared a meal of spaghetti, ham and onions with white bread bought from the bakery – she deemed the homemade dark bread too coarse and not „noble“ enough for her visitors. Jerry made everyone laugh with his funny attempts at eating spaghetti.
Unfortunately Mr. Alloggia does not relate how the visit came to an end, how long Patti and Jerry were there, how the relatives bade each other farewell, etc. He does say that the contact between Patti and her aunt Loreta continued for a long time. Patti sent packages of clothing for the children and grandchildren, and the Christmas package always contained a few dollars. The relationship became less intensive after Loreta's death, and in time the contact with Loreta's children almost ceased entirely. Patti would later write in her book how she looked back on this visit with great pleasure and realized how fortunate she was after having witnessed their poverty and simple living conditions.
The book also includes a short biography of Jerry, which contains several errors. The most glaring:
After Ronnie's adoption, Jerry, Patti and the children went to live in a large, luxurious apartment in New York, where Patti's mother Maria lived with them. She helped to raise Gary and Ronnie, because Jerry AND Patti were constantly away from home due to their work. Wow, where do I start? I think the people who did the research for Mr. Alloggia got several things mixed up. Jerry, Patti and Gary moved from their 2 ½ room apartment in Newark straight to Los Angeles. This was before Ronnie's adoption. Jerry may not have been home much, but Patti was there, so I think someone was actually thinking of Jerry's childhood and how his parents were mostly away due to their work. But it is true that Maria went to live with Jerry and Patti, as told by Jerry in his autobiography. It was not the mansion in Bel Air, since Jerry did not purchase that house until 1958, and Maria died in 1954. The luxurious New York apartment reminds me of Dean Martin and his first wife, Betty. They lived in such an apartment on Riverside Drive, before they too moved to Los Angeles at the same time as the Lewises. This was just after Dean and Jerry had signed with Hal Wallis to appear in films.
Irving Kaye was a great Borscht Belt comedian! He would like to have been...
Max Coleman got Jerry his first engagements at the Borscht Belt hotels. No, THAT was Irving Kaye.
In the summer of 1953, Jerry had to travel to Paris to shoot a film; that was his main reason for being in Europe. Again, the researchers became confused. Many years later Jerry did go to Paris to make a film – the circus scenes for The Day The Clown Cried. But this was in the early 1970's, not in 1953.
The End! I hope you enjoyed my summaries! I left out all the text Mr. Alloggia wrote on Italian emigration and his own childhood memories of the hard life in Paganica, but it had really nothing to do with Jerry and Patti, and they were my reason for obtaining the book.
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Post by anarchistemma on Jun 24, 2019 3:00:54 GMT
wow. thanks for all the great research and information! love it. 😘
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Post by denise on Jul 22, 2019 10:10:44 GMT
I tried to post a few photos from the book, but the photo files are all too big, so they won't upload. Sorry! I'm not internet-savvy enough to know how to solve that problem.
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Post by anarchistemma on Jul 22, 2019 17:26:17 GMT
what if you take a screen shot with your phone? that should be a small enough file to upload....? or is that what you tried already....
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Post by denise on Jul 23, 2019 7:47:25 GMT
Scan4.pdf (533.62 KB)Scan7.pdf (228.23 KB)Scan9.pdf (230.88 KB)
Next attempt... I don't give up that easily... Yeah, I'm trying PDF screenshots now. Can you click on them and see something?
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Post by Classickat on Jul 23, 2019 7:58:37 GMT
What you can do in the future is just upload them to tumblr and save them in the drafts. From there copy the image url and paste the link, after you click on the image button. It will show the image after that.
I was able to download the photos though!
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